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who needs to be liberated?


Everyday I read that women need to be liberated. One question often comes to my mind: from what? What is it that a woman needs to be liberated from?
Equality is a definite yes-yes but at what cost?
In order to be equal to men why must a woman behave like a man, eat, dress act even abuse like a man? That’s selling the essence of a woman too short.
And does It not say that we are no good; we were born lesser so we shall become like you.
To fight against men women today are emulating them . Aggressive. Assertive. And in turn lose their femininity, grace, poise, beauty.
But who said that we need to fight against men in order to be equal? And who needs to be equal? To whom and why?
And what does a woman needs to be liberated from? Nothing at all. She just needs to be herself.
It is men who need to be liberated.
Liberated from the way they see women.
Liberated from the task of assigning roles for women.
Liberated from the way they put their own expectations on her of a demi-goddess.
Liberated from the way of pushing her into old patterns.
Liberated from their own desires of holding her in their clutches.



Comments

aro said…
sorry for my english...but tx for the visit my blog...
stefano
Eye! said…
You def. have some anger for the men in this world! :)

Every good natured animal, I find, is equal to another whether they're male, female, pink, square, round or purple.
Men have their purpose, strenghts, weaknesses, beauty and ugliness, as do women, in every animal shape or form.
Kunjubi said…
spokeswoman of Women'lib???? Good.
kunjubi
Matthew said…
There is no reason to care about women anymore. I hear those things every day; and, I revile! Where have all the ladies gone? Women, are sub-par, and quite worthless.
Warren said…
With every comment, the sad and confused men and women quite plainly leave a drop of their blood from the wounds they have aquired from the opposite sex. Yet my worry is that they will give up on the possibility of receiving the life changing power of love one day that crosses their path. All the hurtful and nasty comments will not get them any closer to the most wonderful and fulfilling environment TRUE LOVE could cuddle them with someday.
The path to TRUE LOVE will be ladened with obstacles to teach you what you need to know about the "true painless love". Your gift of LOVE will cross paths with you soon again and please don’t be too bitter to lose it forever.Dont give up, work hard to BE READY when the gift of TRUE LOVE shows itself. It could be the quiet looking plain man or the quiet looking plain woman on the surface. We all have the natural gift of Love inside of us waiting to be experienced and give plenty of. What a powerful feeling to be a part of that. Deep down, that is what you want.
There are so many old people as we type and read, who are dying so lonely. It is so so sad.
The gift of a companions Love is so sadly being diluted because of all this worlds negativity.
It is such a shame.
The negativity is stealing our gifts as loving human beings.
Help by loving someone and receive your gift before you take your last seat in a chair or lay down on your bed for the last time.
It doesn’t matter if your partner passes away before you do because, You have received your gift of "Love".
You will carry this with you always.
It will be in your last thoughts and feelings as you too leave this beautiful place.
Trust me.......
Warren
WPWI said…
Now THIS is truly something to behold. Thank you from the bottom of my besotted little heart. When I read this posting this afternoon (03.06.10), I found myself taking a deep sigh, thinking THIS IS WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT. Where has this person been all of my rather pathetic life? How have I NOT known him/her? sdinSeattle

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